Marriage is a special bond that a couple shares. So, before
you decide to bind yourself by marriage, ask yourself the most important
question – are you ready to actually live your entire life with one
person? Are you ready to accept another person into your life? Do you
suit each other? We always think about these questions and avoid getting into a
serious relationship. We are never ready for a lifelong commitment.
Why do we think that we
are not ready for marriage?
We judge everyone according to our last
relationship. We think that the last
relation was a failure then every next relation will be a failure.
We think that we are financially not ready for
all the expenses.
You think that you are not ready to have kids.
You think that you love your partner but you
don’t want to spend your life with him/her.
Nowadays the couples have trust issues.
You think that it will interfere with your career.
And the reasons for not getting married are
But you will be never ready for it; don’t
search for a reason to escape. Don’t get
married just because your friend or colleagues are getting married or you are
Before starting any business, we make plans
but we are afraid to take our first step. Because we think that our plan is not
good or you are not fully prepared for the launch.
Don’t think that you are not good enough to
raise the kids, nobody is born perfect, you just have to step into
a relationship and everything will work on its own. Sometimes we think that our
independence will be lost and you don’t feel like sharing your personal space with anyone but one day or
another you have to. Don’t get married because you are getting old and the age
for marriage has passed. You are never
too old to fall in love with a person. We spend our whole life waiting for the
perfect person and you lose what you already had. Maybe the person you are
dating is perfect for you; try to search good things for a person.
You think that your time will come to get
married but maybe this is a perfect time.
It happens with everyone, we feel that we
are not ready for such a big thing in your life.
Our expectations from marriage are so much,
we expect them to be your good friend, mature enough to understand your
problems and you. And these expectations stop
us from committing to anyone. Don’t marry
just because of the society and what other people will think, marry for your
own happiness. You will never be ready for marriage until you do it.